The Preachers’ Aid Society along with the Board of Ordained Ministry of the New England Conference has sponsored Tending the Fire (TTF) since 2006. TTF helps clergy to understand and apply the concepts of Bowen family systems theory to their congregations and to their personal lives. Over and over we hear back from participants that what they learn about family systems is helpful not only in their church, but in every aspect of their lives.
TTF requires a commitment of time; it includes three three-day retreats. Participants learn to “think systems” in their personal lives and in their churches. The process includes lecture, small groups, reading, individual work and discussion time. Gathering for worship, communion, and fellowship at meals are also important experiences within the TTF process.
